Saturday, November 29, 2014

Saturday

Saturday at the Carriers is cleaning day. So, while I was not really prepared for what that meant, it was an excellent experience for all of us. (Rosenberry ladies, that is)
Cody and Boaz and Natalie 

We woke around six-well, earlier than that actually, thanks to the two roosters outside our window. I have to put a word in for those two guys tho. There are two, like I said, I could hear that. "Er-er-er-er-errrrr" then the other would echo. Well anyway, I asked Brent while it was still dark out how many hens for the two roosters and he told me they only had one hen!! I didn't really know this before my children told me, but at home when we had borrowed a rooster for our 14 hens, my children realized something. The rooster would crow and the hens would come to him. Crow, hens come running, like only hens can:) so. I can only wonder if these guys keep crowing on hopes that more hens will show up...I don't know...

So we got up , got dressed and combed, without the luxury of running water or mirrors. There is one small mirror in the main room, but I would rather take a guess than do my grooming in front of strangers. Thankful to Tara, she had brought a hand mirror, so that was a huge blessing! To be completely honest, I never thought about saying thankyou for my mirror at home before! 

We ate breakfast of coffee(thanks to Natasha) a yummy banana bread and some delicious lemongrass tea. There's no refrigeration here in this village. There is never any cold milk because they need to boil the milk 3 times, and how do you cool that down without a fridge? Or keep it cold, for that matter? So the milk they drink is in the form of hot chocolate or chai. But I'm pretty sure there was no milk at the 'store' and so we had the lemongrass tea. I don't mind, I'd take that over hot choc any day. However, Mrs. Carrier said hot choc is about the only way to get calcium.! Think about it, no milk, no cheese, yogurt, or anything that is a 'staple' to us at home. 

After breakfast, Mr. Carrier(Marc) took us on a tour of the village, where we saw the 'store'. You cannot begin to imagine, and I will have a difficult time giving you an accurate picture. I walked out to the store, which was a door about 32-36" wide. Inside was a 'booth', which was part of the doorway and about 24" deep. The goods were displayed behind chicken wire, to protect it from being grabbed by little black hands(or big ones) Silas runs the store. In the booth, behind the wire was bread, rolls, mandazes, sugar, candy, and even lollipops for sale. (When you think sugar, think raw sugar, when you think size of bag, think baggies w 1/2 cup in them. Just saying:) As I allowed my eyes to adjust and focus beyond the wire and things in the forefront, I saw soda, salt and Silas' wife and young son. 
Natalie and me in front of the store.

We walked from the store to the new permanent house that the mission is building,
which will have a well, a couple shops and homes, as well as a clinic. 

When we returned home, cleaning was in full swing. Mrs. Carrier had the living room area rug (8x10) slung over the swing set and was beating the dirt and dust out of it with a 30" piece of rubber. We entered the house to find furniture moved and young Carrier girls sweeping the living room. I walked thru to the kitchen and watched Jonah(13)and younger sibling mop the floor. The way they did it was dip mop in water, scrub the floor, use a large squeegee to work the water toward the door, wipe everything up w a large towel( which was very red w Kenya mud by the time I came on the scene) I was amazed how much cleaned the floor looked. This process was continued for the dining, living and hall area. 

I walked outside to assist Mrs. Carrier. Tara and I got the chance to beat small door mats and then she showed us how to scrub them with a scrubbing brush and bucket of soapy water.
I didn't realize she was only making it LOOK easy until I began to scrub. There was four of them and we scrubbed and then hung them in the swing set to dry in the African sun. 

Meanwhile Mrs Carrier was having her laundry scrubbed by an African laundress.
Think low, wooden workbench, dish pans and literal scrubbing! The wash was draped over the 4 ft high barb wire fence that serves as a protection along the boundaries of the yard. 

We returned to the house and swept the bedrooms, not w a central vac, but by pushing a kitchen broom w a broken handle over dusty, gritty concrete floors. 

I give these details, not in any way to degrade or expose these people,(I admire their commitment to live in this way)but for 2 reasons. One, to help those of you who've never been privileged to see, get the picture. And, two, so I remember how spoiled we are, to pull out the vacuum and suck up dirt[( I'm struggling to remember if it's even dirt that I pick up w that vacuum) it is American dirt, which seems far cleaner than this African dirt. It might just be me] whatever the case, it was a very good experience for us!

Then we were done and I actually got a hot shower at Natasha's. That was made possible by the garden hose style solar hot water rigged up on the roof of their house. I don't really know, but it was nice!! 

On Saturday afternoons, Mama Charlton(Charlton's mom, also called Wanda) holds a little class for children. She reads a Bible story and they all sing. The children, dirty with red mud and unwashed bodies, sat wide eyed and attentive, singing, clapping and moving. And I smiled just watching them.

It was a fun, full day as we learned to know just a little bit more about these brothers and sisters who have dedicated their lives to serving the people of Kenya. 

Continue to pray for safety and protection. Nighttime is the worst for me, when the dogs bark and all I can imagine is dark people prowling around, and fear creeps in. All I can do is pray and trust God w my family in a brand new way. Thank you!!



Friday, November 28, 2014

We are Here

We got here to Carrier's mission Friday eve around 4, after a 4+ hr drive over more bumpy roads.
We saw two baboons on the way...
And Some very tribal looking boys...
The interior homes...

We will spend the week with the Carrier family. They have 8 children and within an hour our children had lost their timidity and played nicely. 

I don't expect to post a lot in the next week because Internet is spotty and for sure not dependable to post pics. 

They have running cold water, when the pump works. We will have sponge baths, well, I'm not sure, cuz there is a shower head in the bathroom. We are trying to get used to using the Kenyan choo[(chō)toilet]

I know it will be a stretching experience for us. Pray with us that God would be in control of the stretching and that He would use it in our hearts how He wants to and that He would be glorified. 

There is a young family here, Charlton and Natasha Sweazy, and three preschoolers, whom we met last night. We all fell in love with their family, and are excited about spending the week with them. 
The girls will be clamoring for Hadassah Sweazy(2 wks), I'm sure

That's all for now. 
Thanks again for your interest and more importantly, your prayers!!
--Mariellen 

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Happy Thanksgiving!!

As a tradition, the compound gets together to celebrate Thanksgiving Day. It is the only holiday that they celebrate and they go all out. It's a day for missionaries only(and their vistors, of course:)

(Sorry I thought I could have pics for you, but am having issues loading from anything but the iPhone, and we didn't take any with that today)

Did I mention that they go all out?
The decorations were beautifully done. 

The food was, well, can I say, more than I've ever had in America for thanksgiving? And I'm not faulting these guys. They and their families sacrifice a lot of the comforts that we enjoy, simply by choosing to serve in Africa. 

The afternoon was spent in games for all. 
And subs and pie and ice cream for supper. (All an extraordinary treat here)
The youth and guys did dishes all day and thanks to the luxury of paper plates from the states, their job was lightened....
We got rained out by a passing storm at the beginning of supper which added much chaos to the meal...and for the first time since I'm here, I was cold. I came home shivering! But I'm warmed up already:)
And off to bed because tomorrow means getting packed for a week in the bush....

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

To the interior and back

Today we loaded into the van, Marlin and the twins and our family, and off to Bible Study we went. 

There is really NO way I can even begin to describe the ride there.  I don't have pictures, and I doubt whether a video could even capture it. I will try to give you a word picture....

We left the city of Kisumu and with it, smooth roads. We hit a bumpy dirt road with relatively much traffic on it, and considerable dust. The children informed me as bumped along that we were in 'heaven' compared to what was to come. I couldn't imagine, and neither can you if you've never experienced it.

One of the things I love MOST here is waving and smiling at people. Young boys, young girls, old men, old mamas, toddler boys and toddler girls alike will almost ALWAYS respond. They will drop what they are doing to grin BIG and wave, often with both hands. Today, one guy smiled soo big that the piece of sugar cane he was chewing fell out! 

So, back to the road. We turned a corner to the right and hit the back road. And it was a BACK road. Pot holes and ledges and places where the shoulder obviously got more traffic than the road itself. Places where we would drive with one set of wheels on the 'road' and the other on the shoulder which put the van at a definite incline. And more pot holes and bigger pot holes, all of which we are doing our best to avoid, which can only be done by literally driving from left shoulder to right shoulder, always yielding to traffic in the appropriate lane. Marlin said and I agree, that if his worst field lane would have looked like this back in the states, it would have been appalling...
Unlike the other roads we'd travelled so far, this road had very little vehicle traffic. The children were allowed once again to put their arms and heads (don't read this, Grandma:) out the windows. Most of the traffic on this road was bicycles loaded with 'feed sacks' of charcoal or sugar cane or in one case 12 ft fence posts.
There were many people walking alone or in groups, often sporting large hoes or machetes headed to his/her day's work in the shamba (garden). Some of the ladies had katambas on their heads with a bucket of water or a sack of merchandise. Cattle and goats being herded by either a young boy or an old man and an occasional tractor and wagon filled with sugar cane.

And on past all these people we bounced. Bumpety, bumpety, bump. Waving and smiling. I could not stop smiling! And each person that smiled and waved back simply made that smile grow...

And when I thought that we were simply in the middle of no where, right there along the road would be a person, quietly chopping away at the weeds in his grown up garden. 

And then we finally arrived at Block 4.  Dirt lane off the Back Road. We travelled for 1/2 mile and met another guy who was there to show us the way.  He said he thinks we can make it without having to get out and walk. I took a look at the mud and secretly hoped he was right. And we did make it, after sliding and spinning and houncing and bouncing some more and then we lurched to a stop in front of what looked like a mud church building. 

Bible Study consisted of some singing, an interpreter who helped out with a devotional and prayer and then the actual Bible Study taken from Acts something where it talks about meat offered to idols. There was a lot of discussion and was interesting how they are currently dealing with this in their lives. Their tradition would be to take a sacrifice to the graveyard and slaughter and eat it at the grave in ceremony to appease the spirit of the dead person. 

The benches were definitely not padded and after about 90 minutes I needed to stand.:)
and only when I got up did I realize how badly I needed to stand. Owie!

I slipped outside and there were about 4 or 5 little people out there. I took a picture of Natalie with them and they loved it. Her white face and blonde hair contrasting starkly to their black and black. But the white teeth when they smiled. And did they smile, especially when I showed them their picture.

And suddenly there was 8 or 10 children. I don't know where they came from.  I dug in my bag and pulled out some life saver mints. They each took one when I handed them to them. But they didn't know how to open the wrappers.  So I opened them and place them in their grubby hands. 

I was in my glory. And suddenly there was 15-18! All with big eyes and shy smiles. I pulled a book out of my bag and they giggled when they saw pictures of monkeys and elephants.  Giggled and pointed and grinned. 
At this point my girls came out and I didn't have the heart to leave the children or to tell my girls they needed to go back into church. So we stayed and enjoyed the children.

 
We fell in love with them and we gave them the attention that they hadn't gotten today. (or ever.?) We hugged their distended bellies and kissed their black cheeks and hands. We patted their heads and held their hands. And they loved us back.  They touched our hair and our white skin, patted our arms and fingered our ears. They were as enthralled with us as we were with them.  

I told Tara that when there is a language barrier a smile and touch bridges that gap.
I gave them juice plus gummies and wiped their sticky hands. Mostly I was cleaning way more than sticky vitamins off their skin. 

They watched when I put germ-x on my hands and so I put tiny drops in their hands and they proudly rubbed their hands together and showed the others how to do it. It was just way too cute!

I know I am going on and on!!...

And then service was over and a trip to the choo (Kenyan potty)Hole in the Floor style....
And then water poured over the hands to wash...
And then the meal....
The white food in the bowl is cassava(boiled root) and the darker is mandazze (think donut without the sugar) It was all very good, tho' I couldn't eat a lot of the cassava before I was full. All of that was washed down with hot chai, which we all liked a lot.

The lady who hosted the Bible study and fed all of us lived right behind the little church. We took a winding foot path back to her house. The path lead past the village well, through the shamba(garden) where yams grew close to the stream and where a hen, surrounded by her brood pecked beneath banana trees.   Trees bearing large papayas grew among the maize and bananas.


Her house...

Next to her house stood a smaller version of the same where she did her cooking. In the corner was large kettle of beans? cooking over an open wood fire. 

And then back to the vehicle. While we waited for the guys to come back, we enjoyed the children some more. Actually, they had trailed us the whole time, except while we went inside the church to eat. They quietly waited outside with a little cassava. 

When I got back to the church where the van was parked, my heart dropped as I realized some of the children who were still hungry had gone into where we had left our food and chai and were going from place to place cleaning up what we all had left. My heart went out-again...

And by the time the guys came, there was probably 8-10 extra children in our van:) But they politely got out when we were ready to go and after hugs and lots of waves and even more smiles, we left the group, and a piece of our hearts, I think...

All of it was such a rich cultural experience which left our hearts full and struggling to find words with which to describe what we were feeling. We were blessed to be able to experience a few hours in the interior of Kenya, and we want to go back again soon...

And we bumped back to Kisumu, to our walls and electric and to our friends.  And we had chicken tetrazzini and snap peas for supper with rhubarb pie that Alison made for dessert. And we sat around as couples and our oldest two joined us as we drank coffee and talked and laughed and simply enjoyed each other....

And now it's off to bed.  We are all healthy, thank God. We are sleeping well. We are grateful for your prayers and we are glad it's not snowing here:) But we ARE glad that we will come home in time to experience that...

Good night from across the water and God bless,
~Mariellen for the family



Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Random thoughts of Tara's

   This is Tara posting for the family!!!:)



   A tuk-tuk!!! I can't wait to ride in one!!!:) tho when I hear them on the 'road' it sounds like the poor things are gonna fall completely apart the next time they hit a pothole. But they never do!!:) and they continue to hit the holes...

                    

   Two of the many many adorable children here. :) my heart is already struggling with the fact that I will have to leave these beautiful people.  

   So on the way home from Nairobi, I would just randomly wave at the people.... Sometimes they would stare at me and make me feel like a flea, but most of the time they would wave and smile!!! Once we were going through town and I waved at this lady and boy, you should have seen her face!!! She GRINNED and waved back, with both hands. So I kept grinning and waving to her and she started laughing and waving more furiously, if that was possible(she was really going at it)...!!!:) It was really sweet...  One thing that I noticed is that when I smile they almost always would smile back even if they didn't wave... Another thing,(wow I could just go on and on and on!!!:) if their hands were full or they were riding bike(lots of those,besides the piki pikis)  they would 'wave' with their heads and not just like a nod, but a very energetic 'head dance!!' :) 

   "Police check!!!" And a mad scramble ensues to get at least half way sat down and turned around!! Over here we don't have to wear seat belts and most of the time there is more people then seat belts in the van... It's a party and everyone sits where they want to(most of the time!!!:) Well anyhoo, these police checks consist of random police on the road, several vehicles pulled over and something that resembles a nail strip over one lane. The police want us to stop because they are looking for bribes. (They sometimes look for bombs, though they wouldn't know one if it blew up in their face!) If they think we have money(well, they are positive we have money because we are the mazungas(rich white people!!:) they point to us, meaning they want us to pull over... Yesterday we went through a police check and one of the guys pointed at our vehicle and do you know what Marlin did?!! He just grinned, waved at the guy and sped away while the children in the van laughed!!:) He said that he will not stop for them unless they step out on the road in front of him...:) Which, with Marlin at the wheel, I doubt many of them will try it..!!:) 

  The driving here is crazy!! They drive on the wrong side of the road and the driver sits in the passengers seat!!:) On the way home from church we were going through town and there was some seriously close and tight traffic, it wasn't even bumper to bumper... It was bumper to the driver door, fender to the back door, bumper to hood and mirror to mirror. I doubt you've ever seen anything like it. It was CRAZY!!!!! It was like a NYC rush-hour traffic jam but instead of everyone being stopped everyone was going it his or her own direction while honking their horns. It's really hard to explain, but I hope you get the point...!!:) At one point when we when passing a semi, there was no more then 3 inches between the van and the truck. It was really close, needless to say, I screeched and did a small dance in my seat..!!!:) 

We are having a good time so far, though Alison was down with the flu yesterday and Natalie is down today. There is a flu going around the compound... Pray that the rest of us would not get it... 

Sunday, November 23, 2014

Flight to First Full Day

Hello to all of you half way around the world.
Before I get started, I want to say,
A big, huge, THANK YOU
for all the prayers that you guys offered on our family's behalf.

Our trip was smooth.
The biggest thing that went wrong was that one of our totes I had packed 6lb over the 50lb limit.
(It was the only one that I had weighed on the carpet-it had weighed in at 26lb and I kept cramming things in, sitting one the lid to close it;) whatever.

So anyway, that was the biggest problem, which was pretty small considering that I was able to get it lightened and re-tiestrapped while Brent checked us all into the airlines.

While we were at our gate in DC, we met a Hutterite man, Hans and his daughter, Patricia who were traveling home to Switzerland. They were the first ppl we saw when we got to our gate and we spent the next couple hours enjoying conversation with them. Felt like an unexpected gift from God and we were very encouraged. 

Our flight to Zurich was 8 hrs and we landed 7:00am. We lost 6 hrs in that flight. The children all slept well except Natalie, who had started fighting a bug(slight temp and cranky) that day. Thanks to Tylonel, she was not cranky, just restless. Brent and I slept like you do in economy, crammed and fidgety.

When we left Zurich, we flew over the Alps.  We thought we had seen them on our way into Zurich, and we had...at a distance and on the horizon.  This time we flew right over them, for 20 or 30 minutes.  I had NO idea.  It.was.incredibly.beautifully.breathtaking. I was totally awed, sitting there with tears on my cheeks, thinking about how fast we had flown and how far we had travelled and how that was only a small portion of the vastness of the earth, and how on there somewhere, i am?  And yet, He knows me...intimately...I will never forget it..
And then there was the Adriatic Sea, blue-green and gorgeous, the Mediterranean.
Desert sands of Egypt and Sudan, barren and seemingly endless.
 And there was the Nile, snaking through. I was seeing the Nile River! (I have learned in recent years to love geography and thank God had remembered to take my wonderful classroom atlas along.  Without that, it would have been nothing more than mountains and seas and rivers and deserts.)
As we approached Khartoum, the capitol of Sudan, I wondered whether the desert would even end.
It did and gave way to blocks of farmland, varied greens and browns, and canals, straight and shimmering in the sunshine and other gorgeous symmetrical patterns.
I know I was going a little crazy with it all, taking it all in and scarcely able to believe I was headed to Kenya! Some interesting, very obvious pattern changes in the flight to evade South Sudan. From the air Ethiopia was a region of barren, lonely, rugged mountain ranges, stretching on and on.
And then came Kenya....and at that point I gave up my window seat and in the middle of the plane beside Natalie, who had literally slept 6 hours of the 7+ hour flight.
We began our descent from 37,000 ft as the sun disappeared and the sky grew darker.  
The amazing thing was that it felt like it should be evening, even though in reality our bodies thought it was 11am.
We landed and stepped onto the pavement of Nairobi International and Tara said, "guys, we're in Africa'.  And Brent and I looked at each other with amazement.  The children were much less impressed. Of course, we've been planning this...Brent and I were a little disappointed because to us, this was really amazing.  And then we remembered that we lived a few more years than they, and we had even more thoughts of the rare possibility of this very moment ever happening! And we extended grace;)

Our friends had told us that the best thing we could do when we landed in Nairobi was to walk with confidence. UHHH??  I was sure that would be impossible. I mean how is it possible when you yourselves have never been more out of the country than Canada? But guess what? God was there!
I shouldn't be surprised by now, should I? Will I never learn?

We had to go through a health screening, which was a camera that checked for fever. And then get our visas, and pick up our many totes.  It all went so well. And I totally believe we walked with confidence. It was quite a train. Brent in the lead, pushing a cart loaded with totes, Tara and Cody following, each with a loaded cart. Alison, Amber and Natalie were all pulling carry ons and I brought up the tail with the last loaded cart.  We marched with confidence right out of the airport.

And then there were Hello's and hugs and yeah, tears:)

As we left the airport and hit the highway, I realized that believing that we were safe when we had landed in the jet, was a misconception. We've all heard about New Jersey drivers, right? Well, I never! Ever! saw anything like this...EEKS! So continue to keep us in your prayers:)

Remember, right side drivers, ok?
So I'm sitting behind Brent who is beside Marlin. So, Brent is in the 'normal driver's' seat.  When we turned off the highway onto a small, bumpy(obviously, in hind site, that is relatively speaking) road, my first thought was "I didn't even hear Marlin tell Brent to turn here, How did Brent know?"  Oh! Marlin is driving. And different times the next day as we drove the 6 hrs back to Kisumu, I would be like, that truck is in our lane! Only to realize as we swerved back into our lane, that I was mixed up-again! WE were the ones in the passing lane:)

We slept at a guest house in Nairobi.
We were all asleep in short order. All except Natalie. She struggled to fall asleep and then at 1:00 she woke and came over to me and asked me when it was going to get light out? ugh. After a dose of Benadryl kicked in, we slept soundly.

We drove from Nairobi to Kisumu after  breakfast/coffee at an American Java House. 

On the way home, we got a good picture of Kenya. Piki-pikis (motor bikes) carrying more than their share. Matatus (public transport vans) swerving in and out of the traffic. Tuk-tuks (glorified tricycle) carrying a passenger or two and a load of who knows what. And lots and lots of police checks. We passed roadside markets and people just napping by the road. Everywhere people wanted to sell their merchandise to the mazunga (rich white people)  
And here they scored a sale of rhubarb for pies:)

As we neared what is affectionately called "carrot corner", Darla urged me to close my window. We pulled up to the market and almost instantly 4 or 5 arms were thrust into Brent's lap. In the hands were bags of fresh carrots. Four or maybe Five natives were standing there wanting us to buy THEIR carrots.  We bought a couple bags after some bartering and much amazed laughter in the rear of the vehicle. As we pulled out Marlin's family informed us that this is one thing they usually do with visitors as part of initiation to Kenya:) Sadly, I was not in a position that I could take a picture...It was priceless...

We got to the compound in Kisumu around 4 on Saturday afternoon and that's where I have been ever since. It feels like America in here with many of the comforts of home. Sunday, everyone but Darla and I and both of our youngest went to church. They had to drive for 1 1/2hrs. I'm getting their reports on the ride now as I write.
Cody-"not boring at all, it was awesome, I touched a cow out the window"
Tara-"full body massage, potholes were 10-12" deep"
Alison-"very bumpy, quickly gave you a headache"
Amber-"I loved it! I banged my head a couple times" :)

The children came back and wondered what Darla and I did all morning. :) Of course, the husbands thought they knew, and they were partially right....they thought we had caught up.  We had BEGUN  to catch up:) It's so good to be together again....

Ways to Pray:
-thank God for healing of my tooth(lack of) It didn't throb one time on the plane!
-that we could be a blessing to those around us.
-that Brent could have relief from his allergies that flared up first day.
-safety physically, spiritually and emotionally

Thanks so much. We feel indebted for all your prayers.
God bless...

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Our trip to Kenya...
Feels like we've been dreaming a long time about this.
Feels like we've been planning a long time...
Truth is, we have...
It's been over a year since we began raising our money,
 we made sandwiches...and soup...
and sold it in the neighborhood...well, the children did:)
  we sold Nicaraguan coffee,
 we had a yard sale...
and we saved our pennies and put them in a jug...
but, mostly the Lord blessed us with a profitable year 
and we were able to set aside dollars for our 'Africa Fund'

And here we are....
excitement at an all time high as shopping is done, and totes are sealed,
and carry ons lay open, waiting with the lists nearby.
and the momma wonders if she will be able to remember it all....
as butterflies struggle to lay dormant in her insides...

the globe is there, with the wide ocean that separates the continents...
thoughts of a big bird carrying her most beloveds
to a world that is all new...
and then she remembers they won't be traveling alone,..
the One who HOLDS IT ALL...in His HAND...will be there....
and she remembers the friends that await at the airport...
and the hugs, and the coffee, and the conversations...
and she smiles again, and the butterflies rest...

Pray for us, would you?
for our immune systems
for momma's tooth (nothing is too small to pray about, right?)
for God Almighty to be glorified through our family as we travel